If a narcissist texts and wants to bond, remind them that you have a lot of friends and mentors. You can count to 10 or take ten breaths to expand both your stomach and your chest to help calm yourself.
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The children will see you then.” if the narcissist disagrees, then that’s their problem, not yours.
How to reply to a narcissist text. I’m not an astronomer but i am pretty sure the earth revolves around the sun and not you. Again message are best as everything is written with no emotion. Go on with your life and find someone who genuinely cares about you.
Sorry you’re mad that the world doesn’t revolve around you. If you live your life like everything is about you. She’ll probably be looking for all of these signs if she is convinced that you have narcissistic tendencies.
You will be left with just that. When you text her, don’t over do it (with the number of texts, promises or compliments) and ask her questions instead of focusing on yourself. Get to the point quickly, and don’t let the narcissist drag you down any tangents that have no bearing on your answer.
Suppose the narcissist wants to mess it around simple answers. Talk about events you remember and emphasize your point of view. You know you make sense.
Stick with the facts and what’s going to happen. To avoid reacting emotionally, pause before replying to the narcissist’s text. Point out that you feel better in the new social environment you’ve found.
“the arranged time is midday. Different techniques work for different people, but take a pause before responding. Block this fool from any possible means they have to communicating with you.
Keep your answer short, clear, and concise. When possible, stick with “yes” or “no” answers. For example, if a narcissist says you put work first, remind the person in response that you don’t put in overtime hours and that you take vacations.
“i appreciate that you reached out. I know the urge is strong to reply and maybe even say something sarcastic, but do not waste your time. Whenever possible, give a simple “yes” or “no” answer and leave it.
You can thank a narcissist for any curiosity and concern and then reveal that you’ve moved on. Even if it’s “light” right now, give it time and if the potential is there it can work. Reply to a text with the narcissist perspective with your own personal account of any situation that involves that person.
I’m sorry, i forgot i only exist when you want something. Top ten comebacks for a narcissist.
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